Pillow talk. Food for thought.
So, I was just texting a friend who was stressed about life and it got me thinking too. Sometimes in life you just feel lost. Stuck. Your mind clutters. Same thing, different day. It gets too repetitive and everything just seems so bland. Then you start to question yourself, “What am I doing with my life?” And then you start to feel like you’re not really living. You start to feel like your living your life worthlessly. And worse, you start to compare your life to others. Comparing yourself to others is a battle in which you will lose every time. Someone else’s accomplishments in life is not the absence of yours. The things you lack is confidence, motivation, & inspiration.
And then I realized, your life is only as exciting and adventurous as you make it. You are the creator of your life. You are the writer, the author of your book. Close the chapters that makes you feel less. Write new ones. If you start to feel stuck, take the initiative to change something about your life. One day at a time, one change at a time. Good change takes time. Don’t expect magic to happen overnight. And do not be afraid of change. If you can dream it, you can achieve it. Go on more adventures. Be around good energy. Connect with people. Learn new things. Grow. Good vibes only.
So focus. Don’t let anything or anyone distract you. Love yourself, put yourself first. Your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship you have. Find what brings you joy and go there. And it doesn’t matter how slow you go, as long as you don’t stop going. Focus.